Similarly, my husband is a commercial pilot and is now starting to make more money than me in tech after his 10+ years of underpaid work and a high student loan debt load.
But, here's the deal: he's basically going to make top dollar until he's 65. Meanwhile, I'll likely be seen as a dinosaur in tech by that age and will be lucky to find work at all.
I imagine your wife will be seen the same way. She can comfortably work until retirement age, in an profession that sees experience as a positive thing, while you might be a pariah before you know it.
Yes, we make good money when we're young in tech. But we age out much more quickly due to the bias common in our industry.
There is absolutely a shortage of doctors. AMA is unwilling to fix this and instead rely on a system that drives many to suicide.
My wife is a doctor. I’m a software engineer. While she now makes more than I do, it took nearly 10 years. That whole time, we were racking up tuition/debt on tuition. Residency was demanding and severely underpaid.
Based on our math, we’ll be 25 to 30 years into our careers before her medical education with have a better ROI than my career choice. I didn’t even push for top-dollar jobs.
In other word, medical training had a huge opportunity cost. Even if you solve the bottleneck of residency placement, salaries need to offset the insane burden of training.